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This is something I see a lot with folks when they email me for advice.

They describe their relationship and the things they’ve done to “supposedly improve” it.

And in the end, they’re left standing in the still of the night lost with ideas on how to move forward.

I know it’s a mine field out there… just so many tactics, game plans, strategies and things to think about. What about this, and what about that? The list goes on…

If there’s 1 thing I want to drive home today, it’s this.

Think oh so very carefully before contacting your ex.

In fact, if you do … Continue Reading

This is a question I get a lot -

“If I beg for forgiveness and plead for my ex back, will this work?”

This one’s a classic, and is typically the first thing most people do post a breakup. They drop to their knees, tears in their eyes, and beg for forgiveness and a second chance from their ex.

And my answer is always the same.

• Don’t plead with your ex about how much you love them; it will only annoy them.
• Don’t reason that you will change and try everything in your power to convince them so; it will only prove to them further … Continue Reading
  
  

About once a day I get an email from someone asking for relationship advice on the obvious…
How do I get my ex back?
These emails are actually more like a mini-novel on their life’s history, how they treated their ex, and the stuff ups they’ve done along the way.

Now to be honest, I really don’t have the time to read every single email and reply with a thought-out answer. Hey, don’t get me wrong, I wanna help, but am not interested in spitting out half-baked answers just for the sake of replying.

So one thing I really wanna drum home for all … Continue Reading

You’ve just been dumped! Geeeeeez it sux right?

If it’s any consolation though, the majority of us have all been there!

Hang in there… you’ll get thru it smiling on the other end (but only if you cast the right spells from this day forward).

Not to rub it in, but I reckon you’re going through sleepless nights, long chats with friends dissecting EVERY message you get back from your ex, depression, the constant thoughts of WHY and most importantly, you’re probably thinking how can I get my ex back.
You’re looking … Continue Reading

Most likely I grabbed your attention because I used the word “SEX” in the headline of this post.

There’s no denying that media and advertising use the word “sex” or convey the feeling of sex in their ads to get the attention of customers.

However, the big winners who get their ex back, know that there’s another 3 letter word that is more potent than SEX. That word is YOU.
Why is YOU so powerful?
Because when we were young, we thought we were the center of the universe. That everything revolved around us. Nothing else mattered but ME, MYSELF and I. Everything and … Continue Reading

You’ve done it before, and now’s the time to do it again… melt the heart of your ex.

When you first dated your ex, most likely both of you were head over heals in love… the warm feeling of being in love suddenly made all your troubles go away.

But now you have a problem. Now you have lost your ex and are desperately looking for a way back into their lives. The way back is NOT by treating them to expensive dinners in 5-star restaurants or sending them 50 roses. There’s a more effective way of working your magic and at … Continue Reading

Fact of fiction? Does it work?

Does the smell of your armpit entice the ladies to come swarming around you?

Well, such was an interesting email that I got from one of my buddies in Vancouver who saw on TV the other day a documentary about male pheromones.

For those who don’t know, male pheromones is nature’s way of attracting members of the other sex by the scent you give out.

This occurs everyday in the animal world, and in fact, many insects use their sex pheromones to attract a mate from up to 10km’s away.

BUT, will it work for men?

Here’s what my friend … Continue Reading

Ok, I’m gonna stop you from guessing, even though it should be REALLY obvious.

Tomorrow is VALENTINES DAY! Yay!!

And you know what that means??

It means it’s the perfect reason to go contact your ex if you haven’t done so for some time. Heck, even if you have contacted your ex recently, then still go ahead and shoot over a friendly email or text message telling them this:
Just dropping you a line to say “Happy Valentines Day”. Hope you have a good day. Cheers!
See how simple that was? And it was all non-threatening too.

The reason why you need to do … Continue Reading

Hi everyone!

What a lovely Sunday morning here with the sun shining. Just finished breakfast and waiting for Karly to fix her hair as we’re heading out on a date to the Hunter Valley. For those who don’t know… it’s one of the best wine regions in Australia.

Anyway, last night I came across an American Demographics report outlining some of the reasons why couples breaks up.

Did you know that:

• 35% of Americans have been through a breakup in the past 10 years?
• And those under 35 are twice as likely to breakup to those in the 35 to 54 age group, and nearly … Continue Reading
  
  

Trust everyone enjoyed their Christmas break and New Year.

I enjoyed the countdown into the new year watching the amazing the fireworks in Sydney harbour.

This year, the first time ever on my resolution list was to lose weight. I’ve put on 5kg’s over Christmas and am sure my better half wasn’t far behind.

Anyway, today I want to give you an inside look at the two most basic methods of getting back your ex. All other methods out there are merely a variation of these two methods.

They are:

1. The Houdini Effect (disappearing from your ex’s life)
2. Ride the Friend Thing

Now, many folk ask me … Continue Reading