Begging Question

This is a question I get a lot -

“If I beg for forgiveness and plead for my ex back, will this work?”

This one’s a classic, and is typically the first thing most people do post a breakup. They drop to their knees, tears in their eyes, and beg for forgiveness and a second chance from their ex.

And my answer is always the same.

  • Don’t plead with your ex about how much you love them; it will only annoy them.
  • Don’t reason that you will change and try everything in your power to convince them so; it will only prove to them further that you’re still the same person that they broke up with.
  • Don’t waste hours upon hours forcing your ex to talk it out and see things your way; it will only make them even more sure of the reasons behind the breakup.

Nothing good can come from pouring out your heart and soul to your ex right now. You will just push them further away and create an even bigger gap between you two.
begging

Don’t beg for another chance.

Sometimes it’s better to do nothing at all. There are a myriad of tricks and tactics out there, but sadly, most of them are stale and simply won’t work.

Anyways, gotta get back to the soccer. Was disappointed to see Australia thrashed by the Germans last night. I know the Germans are far better, but I would have at least like to of seen a fight from the Aussies.

Better luck for their next game.

Cheers.

SocialTwist Tell-a-Friend

One Response to “Begging Question”

  1. Ben said:

    Aug 27, 10 at 1:11 am

    Well as many other says, begging, stalking, pleading, being too clingy, appearing too needy is a big NO if you want to have your ex back.

    You are right, sometimes its really better not to really do something, just let nature takes its course. lol!

    And besides, less talk less mistake…^_^