You mentioned that you’ve gotten over him. Well perhaps, he’s gotten over you now too.

What do you want from your ex? Friendship or to develop a relationship again? Only once you know this answer, can you take the appropriate moves.

I doubt very much your ex hates you. Judging by your post, both you and your ex haven’t done anything wrong towards each other. Perhaps the 2 of you have just grown apart.

It’s January. I see him everyday. I kind of got over him, but it took a lot of other guys to get me over him. 8 to be exact. Everyone always asks me what I feel about seeing him everyday, and I just say that I don’t really care. However, whenever people ask him, he says that I’m an annoying b**** and hates that he goes to the same school as me.

I didn’t really care at first, but as I thought about him more, I started to miss him. I want to talk to him, and every time I make small talk, he doesn’t really respond accordingly. But, he is shy.. So I’m not sure. I want to say something to me but I feel like he actually does hate me.

Do you think he’s over me…

Now, a month later, we’re still not together and I miss him. I truly feel that he is THE ONE. Everytime we talk, its always because I make the attempt, and he always ends up frustrated with me, so we usually end our talks on a bad note.

The other day however, we had a good talk and got a lot out there and ended things that we both weren’t going to talk to each other for a while, i basically said that ball was in his court. I’m worried that now I spent so much time trying to fix things that i pushed him further away and that we wont get back together.

Not to mention, he has told me to move on, and that we wont be together. I don’t know if I’m being naive or if he really means it.

By the way, the whole reason we broke up was because of his job, he travels a lot and it caused too much stress on both of us. I am so confused and heartbroken.

He tries to find someone new as fast as he can – this is because he doesn’t want to face the loneliness, or the grief that’s waiting for him if he doesn’t have a girlfriend.

He misses you.

Should I?

I have contacted him on a friendly note a couple of times and he responded in a friendly way but he has never contacted me and when we see each other in person we still act like the other is invisible.

Do you think he is over me?

* he makes me jealous
* he comes online to talk to me anytime
* he wants to talk to me in the afternoons (my time), break of dawn (his time)
* he constantly reminds me to get a better guy and younger than him
* he keeps on asking me if I’m going to invite him to my wedding day

Do you think he’s not over me yet?

I often put too much input into it and he was very hot and cold. We had a few arguments mainly because i felt like i was always in the wrong when he was off. He had it so we didnt talk for a while but we couldnt stick to it, we always ended up cracking.

Then the other day we were talking normally, he made most of the conversation and started it but for no reason he said to me he wanted to hate me for all i did to him but he couldnt and then he told me it was best if we didnt talk for a while but he’d call me when he was good and ready to.

Then the same night he rang me on an with held number, then the night after he rang my mate asking for my number to ring me and then finally on friday he rang me and said he was ready to talk to me again.

All the times he rang me it was because he was drunk what does that mean?
What do i do?

We are currently going to court over our daughter, but he said he was hoping we could still be friends. I’m at a dead end as to what to do now because I feel there is still something there as I had said he should only ring to talk to the children, but he wont just call to talk to them. He says he has to talk to me too because that’s what the court said, but I’ve been told that if the conversation gets uncomfortable, I don’t have to talk to him and I think he just says that to get to talk to me anyway.

I’ve just finished a report on exactly what to do if your ex just wont return your calls or emails. This will be put in the Members Area this weekend free of charge.

If you decide to come aboard, let me know, and I’ll email you off a copy.

Cheers,
James.