Signs Your Ex Is Not Over You
Tags: ex still likes you, getting back together, getting back your ex
Perhaps your ex really isn’t quite over you yet…
Are you hoping to get back with your ex? If so, then one thing you need to do is keep an eye out for the “SIGNS”.
The SIGNS will tell you how your ex is still thinking about you, and it’s up to you to read the signs correctly.
Of course, when you’re miserable about your break up, it’s easy to see things the way you want to see them. And what could be more embarrassing than going after an ex who really has no interest in getting back together with you?
Here is a checklist of signs that your ex may NOT be over you for good:
- She reminds you that you can contact her anytime.
- He has contacted you on more than one occasion since your breakup.
- She has emailed you for no reason.
- He’s called to tell you about something important that’s happened in his life.
- She’s asked you for advice.
- He has an uncanny knack of showing up in the same places you are.
- She seems nervous whenever you bump into each other but not in a way where she wants to get out of the situation.
- He hasn’t started any new relationships.
- She is “taking a break” from dating.
- He’s mentioned something he’s been doing to improve himself.
- Her friends have been asking your friends if you’d be interested in getting back together.
- He’s changed “that thing” that always bugged you about him.
If you’ve noticed a lot of these things, then that’s great news… but let’s not crack open the champagne yet.
Your ex still has feelings for you, and it’s highly possible to draw them back into your life. BUT, only if you play cool and follow a tried and tested method.
A “makeup” may not happen right away. Keep your eyes and ears out for more signs and if you see them, it might be the time to unleash your “ex getting” tactics and win their love back!
Roger said:
Jun 18, 09 at 8:23 pmI would like to talk to someone who has bought this system and see how it worked for them.
My ex doesn’t return my emails or letters I have written her and I need to win her back.
We have been together for 3 yrs.
Email me
bcman2008@yahoo.com
Roger
James Kern said:
Jun 18, 09 at 8:31 pmHi Roger,
I’ve just finished a report on exactly what to do if your ex just wont return your calls or emails. This will be put in the Members Area this weekend free of charge.
If you decide to come aboard, let me know, and I’ll email you off a copy.
Cheers,
James.
Tasha said:
Jun 20, 09 at 6:50 amI’m talking about the 2nd time around. I called it off first. He said he wanted things to work out between us again. I do too, but I wasn’t going to keep sleeping with him while he still lives with her.
We are currently going to court over our daughter, but he said he was hoping we could still be friends. I’m at a dead end as to what to do now because I feel there is still something there as I had said he should only ring to talk to the children, but he wont just call to talk to them. He says he has to talk to me too because that’s what the court said, but I’ve been told that if the conversation gets uncomfortable, I don’t have to talk to him and I think he just says that to get to talk to me anyway.
katie said:
Jul 01, 09 at 3:35 amMe and my ex were on and off for a while, we were together for around 8 months and it was an awkward 8 months.
I often put too much input into it and he was very hot and cold. We had a few arguments mainly because i felt like i was always in the wrong when he was off. He had it so we didnt talk for a while but we couldnt stick to it, we always ended up cracking.
Then the other day we were talking normally, he made most of the conversation and started it but for no reason he said to me he wanted to hate me for all i did to him but he couldnt and then he told me it was best if we didnt talk for a while but he’d call me when he was good and ready to.
Then the same night he rang me on an with held number, then the night after he rang my mate asking for my number to ring me and then finally on friday he rang me and said he was ready to talk to me again.
All the times he rang me it was because he was drunk what does that mean?
What do i do?
eloise said:
Aug 02, 09 at 1:27 amThese are the things that my ex does:
* he makes me jealous
* he comes online to talk to me anytime
* he wants to talk to me in the afternoons (my time), break of dawn (his time)
* he constantly reminds me to get a better guy and younger than him
* he keeps on asking me if I’m going to invite him to my wedding day
Do you think he’s not over me yet?
sharifah said:
Aug 19, 09 at 6:47 pmOk me and my ex have been broken up for 4 months and everytime we bump into each other, he would act fidgety or look anywhere else but at me in an obvious way, or try to avoid me.
I have contacted him on a friendly note a couple of times and he responded in a friendly way but he has never contacted me and when we see each other in person we still act like the other is invisible.
Do you think he is over me?
PRISCILLA PEREZ said:
Mar 25, 10 at 4:50 amI’m not over my ex Gabriel Patlan and it’s hard because I want to move on but just cannot.
Should I?
Black Dahlia said:
Apr 20, 10 at 3:11 amAlthough some guys “take a break from dating” or don’t try to find someone new, another pattern that guys tend to follow includes going out with girls at a rapid rate- a month, a few weeks, then he breaks up with them.
He tries to find someone new as fast as he can – this is because he doesn’t want to face the loneliness, or the grief that’s waiting for him if he doesn’t have a girlfriend.
He misses you.
Tiffany said:
Oct 01, 10 at 1:59 amMy ex and I broke up a month ago and I’m going crazy. He was living with me in New York then moved back to California. saying he needed time, I never gave him “time” because i was too busy trying to “save” our relationship.
Now, a month later, we’re still not together and I miss him. I truly feel that he is THE ONE. Everytime we talk, its always because I make the attempt, and he always ends up frustrated with me, so we usually end our talks on a bad note.
The other day however, we had a good talk and got a lot out there and ended things that we both weren’t going to talk to each other for a while, i basically said that ball was in his court. I’m worried that now I spent so much time trying to fix things that i pushed him further away and that we wont get back together.
Not to mention, he has told me to move on, and that we wont be together. I don’t know if I’m being naive or if he really means it.
By the way, the whole reason we broke up was because of his job, he travels a lot and it caused too much stress on both of us. I am so confused and heartbroken.
Minnie Dassen said:
Jan 09, 11 at 1:31 pmI dated this boy for one year and one month. It was kind of a long distant relationship, but it worked out pretty well. We both ski so that’s how we know each other. We live 4 hours apart, and we don’t have our licenses. We might be young, but nothing can beat those memories we shared. Yes, I did love him. But, when my parents told me I wasn’t going to any ski camps this summer, that meant I wasn’t going to see my boy all summer. It killed us when we weren’t with each other for a really long time. It was going to be more than 7 months if we waited! But, since it was too unbearable, we decided to take a break till November.
It’s January. I see him everyday. I kind of got over him, but it took a lot of other guys to get me over him. 8 to be exact. Everyone always asks me what I feel about seeing him everyday, and I just say that I don’t really care. However, whenever people ask him, he says that I’m an annoying b**** and hates that he goes to the same school as me.
I didn’t really care at first, but as I thought about him more, I started to miss him. I want to talk to him, and every time I make small talk, he doesn’t really respond accordingly. But, he is shy.. So I’m not sure. I want to say something to me but I feel like he actually does hate me.
Do you think he’s over me…
James Kern said:
Jan 09, 11 at 4:47 pmHi Minnie,
You mentioned that you’ve gotten over him. Well perhaps, he’s gotten over you now too.
What do you want from your ex? Friendship or to develop a relationship again? Only once you know this answer, can you take the appropriate moves.
I doubt very much your ex hates you. Judging by your post, both you and your ex haven’t done anything wrong towards each other. Perhaps the 2 of you have just grown apart.